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BostonPL: 14 Memoirs for Coping with Mother's Day

Mother's Day can be a difficult reminder for many who struggle with loss or infertility, have a nontraditional family, or have a complicated relationship with their family. If you find Mother's Day to be a challenging rather than uplifting holiday, we hope you will find comfort in one of the memoirs featured below, and realize you are not alone.

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  • If You Love Me

    A Mother's Journey Through Her Daughter's Opioid Addiction

    Cavanagh, Maureen
    Fast-paced and heartwarming, devastating and redemptive, Maureen’s incredible odyssey into the opioid crisis—first as a parent, then as an advocate—is ultimately a deeply moving mother-daughter story.
    eBookHenry Holt and Co., 2018
  • White Walls

    A Memoir About Motherhood, Daughterhood, and the Mess In Between

    Batalion, Judy
    Thrown into chaos by motherhood, Judy Batalion's reflections on the lives of her mother and grandmother, both Polish immigrants who escaped the Holocaust, allow her to discover the deep connections the three generations share, despite…
    eBookPenguin Publishing Group, 2016
  • The Dead Moms Club

    a Memoir About Death, Grief, and Surviving the Mother of All Losses

    Spencer, Kate, 1979-
    Kate Spencer lost her mom to cancer when she was 27. In The Dead Moms Club, she walks readers through her experience of stumbling through grief and loss, and helps them to get through it, too.
    BookBoston : Seal Press, [2017] — BF723.D3 .S645 2017
  • A Mother's Reckoning

    Living in the Aftermath of Tragedy

    Klebold, Sue
    The mother of one of the two shooters at Columbine High School draws on personal recollections, journal entries and video recordings to piece together what led to her son's unpredicted breakdown and share insights into how other families…
    BookNew York : Crown Publishers, [2016] — LB3013.33.C6 K55 2016
  • Waiting for Daisy

    a Tale of Two Continents, Three Religions, Five Infertility Doctors, An Oscar, An Atomic Bomb, a Romantic Night, and One Woman's Quest to Become a Mother

    Orenstein, Peggy
    A memoir of the author's quest for motherhood details her six-year odyssey from her decision to have a baby, through her desperate pursuit of everything humanly possible to achieve her goal, to the repercussions of the ordeal for her…
    BookNew York : Bloomsbury USA ; Distributed to the trade by Holtzbrinck Publishers, c2007. — RG201 .O74 2007
  • Filled with interviews that examine relationships with fathers and mothers, this memoir about gender and parenting follows the author as she transitioned from a man to a woman and from a father to a mother.
    BookNew York : Crown Publishers, c2013. — PS3552.O914 Z478 2013
  • Where the Light Gets in

    Losing My Mother Only to Find Her Again

    Williams-Paisley, Kimberly, 1971-
    Actress Kimberly Williams-Paisley shares the story of her mother's diagnosis with a rare and early form of dementia, exploring how the disease has affected their relationship and prompted her advocacy of Alzheimer's awareness.
    BookNew York : Crown Archetype, [2016] — RC425 .W55 2016
  • In postwar rural England, Hilary Mantel grew up convinced that the most extraordinary feats were within her grasp. But at nineteen, she became ill. Through years of misdiagnosis, she suffered patronizing psychiatric treatment and…
    BookNew York : Picador, 2004. — PR6063.A438 Z467 2004x
  • The author traces her marriage and relocation to France at the height of her writing career, her devastation over her stillborn son in her ninth month of pregnancy, and her heart-wrenching grieving process.
    BookNew York : Little, Brown and Co., c2008. — PS3563.C35248 Z47 2008
  • Nicole Chung was born severely premature, placed for adoption by her Korean parents, and raised by a white family in a sheltered Oregon town. She was told her biological parents had made the ultimate sacrifice in the hope of giving her a…
    eBookCatapult, 2018
  • The Art of Waiting

    on Fertility, Medicine, and Motherhood

    Boggs, Belle
    The author describes her struggle to conceive a child and in the process explores the natural, medical, psychological and political facets of fertility.
    BookMinneapolis, Minnesota : Graywolf Press, [2016] — RG201 .B554 2016x
  • The Good Daughter

    a Memoir of My Mother's Hidden Life

    Darznik, Jasmin, 1973-
    A memoir in which the author, raised in the United States since the age of three, and chided by her mother with tales of "the good daughter," discusses her discovery that her mother was married at the age of thirteen in Iran and was forced…
    BookNew York : Grand Central Pub., 2011. — HQ1735.2 .D37 2011
  • Shares the author's frank observations about her daughter as well as her own thoughts and fears about having children and growing old, in a personal account that discusses her daughter's wedding and her feelings of failure as a parent.
    BookNew York : Alfred A. Knopf : Distributed by Random House, 2011. — PS3554.I33 Z46 2011
  • Jessica Lost

    a Story of Birth, Adoption & the Meaning of Motherhood

    Crumpacker, Bunny
    A mother and her child, lost and then found again after four decades: this extraordinary story of love, loss, and reunion is told in alternating voices by the two women, each relating her own powerful experience. For the mother, it's the…
    BookNew York : Union Square Press, c2011. — HV874.82.P53 C78 2011